Ever since Isabelle was born, Jack has said she would go to a private school. In our area, we are fortunate enough to have a wide variety to choose from, however, none of which come cheap. We also have a quaint elementary school just a few houses down from mine, that I have heard wonderful things about. Now this school is not a private school, however, it is only a fraction of the cost. Jack is still
insistent on Isabelle getting a private school education. He firmly believes they are better, and it is the only schooling he has ever known. While I have agreed to send her to a private school, I have only agreed because I do not feel the public ones in our area are as great as I would like. I went to public school my whole life, and I feel that I received a great education, but I also lived a small town that had excellent school systems. The only crime my hometown had ever seen was kids staying out passed curfew.
Woop De
Doo.
All this being said, Jack and I had a heated
discussion last night about what we were going to do. Isabelle will be
ready for school in only two short years, and we need to be ready as well. My worry comes in due to the fact that I am not sure how we will ever afford the private schooling. I think if we did it, we would be living close to paycheck to paycheck, and never be able to save money for future
expenses. And if we are not saving, how are we going to come up with college money? Ugh, such stress. I know college is years away, but with how fast each year comes and goes, I fear I will be sending her tomorrow.
Jack then said that if he had to, he would work 3 jobs to send her to the best school. I think that is very sweet and I know he has her best interest at heart, but, would that really work out in the long run. We would never see one another, he would always be away, we would still have little money. After that, he suggested we move. He feels that if we cannot do private school, we will move to a town that has excellent public schools. I do want only the best for my child. But I also feel it is best that she see both her mom and dad regularly. We sit down every night and have dinner together, no TV, just family time.
What is your take on private and public schooling? Any advice?